SyndicationSalam Alaikum everyone. May you al be in the best state of health and faith.
Well, Apologies for my readers as I havent been posting anything on the blog. Reasons are many and it might bore you so lets come to the topic we all hear too much about,
EXPERIENCE: When a person does an act, he gets a result out of it. Whether it be positive or negative, it remains in the person's memory til quite sometime. Not everything, of course can be preserved in memory. Little things like the things we see on roads and stuf like that is forgotten as they seem no necessary to us.
But EXPERIENCE is something which helps us throughout our lives. For example a child. If he takes his hand towards fire and it starts to burn, he immediately takes it away. And it becomes something he wont ever do again. And if the same child sees his little brother doing the thing, he will, himself, takes his hand away. As he knows that fire might burn his hand. If the little brother asks why he did that? The child would say."I know its hot because I have felt it before."
Lets take an example from a teenager's life. A 16 year old girl studies in a high school where she faces many rude people. And she happens to be an invsible person who doesnt mean a thing to anyone.
She asks her mother how were things with you? And mother tells the girl everything she had in her EXPERIENCE. She went to high school, she faced tough times, she had problems. But she went through all of it and still turned out to be a good person.
So, Its actually NOT necessary to be an old, well mannered, sophisticated human being. Or some really study-freek bookworm to say that,"I have enough experience to talk."
It all depends on the matter. Some people have enough information about house issues more than they know about university problems. So if you talk with them about a parents' fight, they might prove to be helpful. And if you ask a Professor about how to deal with academic issues, I dont think anyone else would give a better answer than him.
Basically EXPERIENCE is a name of things and acts we face in life. Their results, their impact on us, the way we react to them. Its not something only two or three humans have. Everyone in the world who comes here, lives here has enough experience to talk. Just you need to know the matter you are talking about.
One thing I would love to mention is, never listen to someone your heart doesnt feel comfortable with. Some people might say, partying after 11 is the only best thing in world. Its their experience. But always see what your ethics say. What your heart says. And even if you attend the party, how would you feel? Wil your concience ring the bell of danger? If yes, than getting out of the party would be the best decision you can ever make.
Have SELF CONFIDENCE. You know you are a Muslim who is on the right path? Then go for it. Talk with people who have the knowledge about Islam. Not those who can show but wont say a word when it comes to Islamic issues.
There is NO LIMIT to experience. Its a constant process. Learn from mistakes; no matter yours, no matter others. Just be sure that the people who can insult you and say I have more experience than you, may not always be true. And you might be better than that person, infront of GOD.
Be good, Do Good, You will Have Good.
From now on, Insha ALLAH, I will be posting an article every week. If you have any suggestions, please post a comment in any of the topics.
With Best Wishes,
Your humble writer,
Maryam.
FI aman ALLAH
Well, Apologies for my readers as I havent been posting anything on the blog. Reasons are many and it might bore you so lets come to the topic we all hear too much about,
EXPERIENCE: When a person does an act, he gets a result out of it. Whether it be positive or negative, it remains in the person's memory til quite sometime. Not everything, of course can be preserved in memory. Little things like the things we see on roads and stuf like that is forgotten as they seem no necessary to us.
But EXPERIENCE is something which helps us throughout our lives. For example a child. If he takes his hand towards fire and it starts to burn, he immediately takes it away. And it becomes something he wont ever do again. And if the same child sees his little brother doing the thing, he will, himself, takes his hand away. As he knows that fire might burn his hand. If the little brother asks why he did that? The child would say."I know its hot because I have felt it before."
Lets take an example from a teenager's life. A 16 year old girl studies in a high school where she faces many rude people. And she happens to be an invsible person who doesnt mean a thing to anyone.
She asks her mother how were things with you? And mother tells the girl everything she had in her EXPERIENCE. She went to high school, she faced tough times, she had problems. But she went through all of it and still turned out to be a good person.
So, Its actually NOT necessary to be an old, well mannered, sophisticated human being. Or some really study-freek bookworm to say that,"I have enough experience to talk."
It all depends on the matter. Some people have enough information about house issues more than they know about university problems. So if you talk with them about a parents' fight, they might prove to be helpful. And if you ask a Professor about how to deal with academic issues, I dont think anyone else would give a better answer than him.
Basically EXPERIENCE is a name of things and acts we face in life. Their results, their impact on us, the way we react to them. Its not something only two or three humans have. Everyone in the world who comes here, lives here has enough experience to talk. Just you need to know the matter you are talking about.
One thing I would love to mention is, never listen to someone your heart doesnt feel comfortable with. Some people might say, partying after 11 is the only best thing in world. Its their experience. But always see what your ethics say. What your heart says. And even if you attend the party, how would you feel? Wil your concience ring the bell of danger? If yes, than getting out of the party would be the best decision you can ever make.
Have SELF CONFIDENCE. You know you are a Muslim who is on the right path? Then go for it. Talk with people who have the knowledge about Islam. Not those who can show but wont say a word when it comes to Islamic issues.
There is NO LIMIT to experience. Its a constant process. Learn from mistakes; no matter yours, no matter others. Just be sure that the people who can insult you and say I have more experience than you, may not always be true. And you might be better than that person, infront of GOD.
Be good, Do Good, You will Have Good.
From now on, Insha ALLAH, I will be posting an article every week. If you have any suggestions, please post a comment in any of the topics.
With Best Wishes,
Your humble writer,
Maryam.
FI aman ALLAH
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